Family Like a
Micro-Body of Messiah
By Bill Bremer
Family like a micro-body of Messiah is where love is shown in Word
Where love is put into action and made real. Following the Messiah is the way to build it. He leads family be a supportive clan thriving on doing good for one another.
On a world wide scale, as we grow up together, in all ways into Messiah, we thrive in the body he heads and builds.
“… until all of us are united in the faith and in the full knowledge
of God’s Son, and until we attain mature adulthood and the full standard of development in the Messiah.” Ephesians 4:13, 11-16 ISV (1 Corinthians 12:27-31,13:1-13)
How we love one another as
husband and wife sets the tone in our family.
Our children pick up on peace or strife. Peace in our husband and wife marriage relationship is congruent with our Messiah’s body relationships and our
Good Shepherd’s relationship with the sheep of God’s flock.
Wives need love. Husband love your wife. (Ephesians 5:25-28) Husbands need respect. (Ephesians 5:33) An excellent book I recommend
on this subject is: Love & Respect: The Love She Most Desires, The Respect He Desperately Needs, by Emerson Eggerichs.
Parents teach by example of our family relationships.
The best thing we can do for our children is to love and be faithful to our Messiah Jesus, to God’s Word, and to one another. Our devotion to God is shown by our devotion to our spouse and our children.
As we grow up into Messiah, we do our best to facilitate each other’s love, fulfillment and worth. Our children trust us. How we nurture them, greatly influences how they relate with Messiah Jesus and God our Father in heaven.
Whether we are good parents or not our children look up to us. “Parents are the glory of their children” (Proverbs 17:6 AAT).
God plans for us to serve
our children by loving them in word and deed. When we lay down our lives to nurture each family member, we are as life givers to those we love.
Children thrive in God’s peace/ shalom environment
— in the nurture and admonition of The LORD. This nurture is primarily relational. Secondarily, it includes feeding, clothing, even changing diapers.
Through our personal ministry to our children,
they get to know Messiah Jesus and learn to relate in shalom. Anything we do that is motivated by the love God has poured into our hearts (Romans 5:5) is pleasing to God.
A Godly mother’s hugs and
soothing words are special ministry, beyond anything an unbeliever can muster. They encompass her children with a soft glow of Love. Love is so vital that babies deprived of it die.
Think of the sting
a mother takes out of a wound. With her mothering she makes it better, whether it’s a toddler’s owie, an adolescent’s shattered expectation, or an adult’s heartache. That’s listening to Messiah Jesus and doing what He prompts
by His Spirit!
Fathers bear the ultimate responsibility to help our children get to know Messiah Jesus and relate in fellowship with God and one another. In order to do that, we must do our utmost to be
faithful to The LORD (1 John 1:6-7; 1 John 2:3-6).
“And you fathers, don’t make your children angry, but raise them by letting The LORD train and correct them.” Ephesians 6:4.
Our children obey because they love us.
Our godly lifestyle blesses our children and they obey because they love us. As we walk in love and help our children love
they willingly obey us.
Our children don’t just naturally love. They are by nature self-centered. Our children must be taught to love and obey. If we are obedient to Messiah Jesus and our Father
in heaven and His Word, we have a rich heritage to convey to our children.
Showing by our actions and telling our children we love them is very important. When we verbalize our love, we also share the
inheritance God has given us with them.
As we tell them of our love, we can also speak a blessing to them. This can begin with something as simple as thanking God for His blessing during our table and
Or when we tuck our children in at night, speaking a blessing like: “We love you and God loves you. The LORD bless you with life and health and well-being.”
The nurture of a godly family helps children grow up in Messiah.
By learning to obey godly parents, children learn to obey God and walk in the way of salvation. (Acts 16:17, Revelation 7:9-10)
“Start children off on the way they should go, and even when they are old they will not turn from it.” Proverbs 22:6 (Ephesians 6:4)
If we love, discipline,
and nurture our children in the way of The LORD, our work of service/ministry becomes very rewarding.
If we are harsh or unfair or unfaithful, we are in danger of making our children angry with us and
with The LORD.
May we love so our children learn of the love and grace and glory of The LORD and find it to be true by family and life experience.
you are a blessing to your parents, grandparents and siblings.
If you love your parents, you obey your parents and God’s peace/shalom is upon you.
obey your parents in The LORD, because it is right. Honor your father and mother — this is an important commandment with a promise: it will be well with you and you will long on this earth.” Ephesians 6:1-3 AAT
“You children, obey your parents in everything. This is pleasant when it is done in The LORD. Parents, don’t irritate your children, or thy will get discouraged.” Colossians 3:20-21 AAT.
“Listen to your father — you are his son and don’t despise your mother when she’s old. Buy truth and don’t sell it; acquire wisdom, training, and understanding. A righteous man’s father can surely rejoice; and
who has a wise son will take delight in him. May your father be happy, and the mother whose child your are be glad.” Proverbs 23:22-25 AAT
“Grandchildren are the crown of grandparents, and
parents are the glory of their children.” Proverbs 17:6 GW.
How most believers came to believe in The LORD.
From my observations, I think the
vast majority of believers came to believe in our LORD and savior Messiah Jesus by believing the gospel their parents taught them in word and deed.
A ad hock survey I observed bears this out. One time
around the year 2000, I was with Judy at a conference in Colorado Springs with about 4,000 fired up believers.
The speaker asked for a show of hands on how they first believed, or got saved. Was in through
the gospel Billy Graham preached at one of his crusades?
About 10 hands came up. Was it at any other kind of Christian Crusade or Conference? About 10 hands came up. Was it by hearing the gospel your pastor
About 100 more hands came up. Was it by being led to The LORD by someone you knew other than your parents?
Around 500 hands came up. Was
it by believing the gospel one or both of your parents taught?
More than 3,000 hands came up.